Women often forget that they are first and foremost a woman. They need love, sex, gentle care and passion for life. All the married adult parents join a FWB relationship because the marriage is not perfect. In order to make up such a gap, a woman (or man) will look for someone or relationship outside the marriage to fill the gap. Please face your heart and accept your emotions. Whether it's excitement, sadness, guilt, shame... Be honest with yourself, because there is no right or wrong emotion, the point is whether you can accept your emotion completely.
1. This NSA relationship will never belong to you
FWB relationship is a kind of happiness stolen from social norms and marital responsibilities. When you explore and enjoy secret benefits with your partner, your inner passion seems to be activated in that moment. You even feel that your FWB has opened a new door to your sex life. However, as much pleasure as he can bring to you, so much pain can he bring to you. Everything has two sides, like a double-edged knife.
Whether it's your sadness or your sadness, it has nothing to do with your sexual partner. He's just one of your bedmates. When you are sad, you can only cry silently. Even when you are with him, you should be furtive, afraid of being known by others. It may be very exciting at first, but as time goes on, you will find that you don't want to continue such an ugly relationship at all.
2. You can't have any emotional connection
Although many hookup finders promise not to have any emotional connection with their sexual partner until they join a NSA relationship. However, when they invest more time and energy, they expect to get the same return from each other, and then fall into a bottomless abyss of "want to turn this casual sexual relationship into a romantic dating relationship", which leads to insecurity and jealousy. If you are worried about gain or loss every day, and the other party gives you some benefits, you will feel happy and try to find proof that the other party loves you. These are women's own fantasies. The truth is, can't he love you or upgrade the relationship.
It can be seen that joining in a FWB relationship can indeed bring some benefits to married hookup finders, but it will still have a lot of negative effects on married causal accountants in some aspects. So before you join the relationship, think carefully about it.